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Questioner : But we should not eat pizza at a restaurant
outside?
Dadashri : Eat pizza? How can we eat pizza? We
uphold the practice of purity in food. Despite this, if you are
really fond of it, eat several times, but gradually stop it. Do it
very slowly and gradually. If you put a stop to it suddenly, that
is wrong. You should eat along with everyone and then
gradually stop it.
Questioner : What should I do if the wife does not
enjoy cooking it?
Dadashri : Then change your preference to other dishes.
There are many varieties of dishes. Change your preferences. If
you don’t like a certain flavour, then have her change the spices
to your liking. What is there to eat in a pizza?
If you organize your life in this manner, it will run
smoothly. In the morning, if you devote half an hour to your
prayers and devotional singing, then things will fall into place.
You have received Gnan already, so now you have become
wise. However, those who do not have Gnan, will need to do
some bhakti. But as for you, you are on the right path.
This Akram Vignan does not interfere with your daily
life. All other forms of religious or spiritual knowledge have
relative contempt for the worldly life. This Science does not
offend the worldly life in the least bit. It remains within the
confines of its ‘reality’ and does not offend anything at all.
The ultimate ‘light’ (knowledge) is where not even a
single being is hurt in the slightest degree. Even the opponent
will become pacified and they will say, “We have our
differences but at the same time I have a lot of respect for you.”
They will say such good things. However the opposition will
always be there. There is opposition against the Gnani as well