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Just make her aware of it, but don’t start quarrelling. After
breakfast, go to work and fulfil your duties there.
Leave your home without any quarrels, and if you have
a conflict at work with your boss then settle your mind on the
way home. Leave your work problems, at work. Enter your
home with a quiet mind. Do not have any disputes in the home.
If you fight with your boss, what fault is it of your poor wife?
Do you have disagreements with your boss or not?
Questioner : I do.
Dadashri : Then what fault is it of your wife? When you
come home after fighting with your boss, then she’ll know that
you are not in a good mood. Does that happen?
Questioner : Yes.
Dadashri : So organize one working day in this manner
and one holiday. There are only two different kinds of days.
There is not a third kind of a day is there? So organize these
two days, and then things will move along.
Questioner : Now what should we do for a holiday?
Dadashri : On your day off, you should take your family
for an outing, since they do not go out much. Have a nice meal
at home, make good food, and then take them out. Limit your
expense when you go out. If sometimes you have to spend
extra money, then you can budget it out, but limit your
expenses. Decide all this with the approval of your wife. Let
your wife make the decisions.
Questioner : She’ll say eat vedhami (sweet bread) at
home and do not go out and eat pizza.
Dadashri : Eat vedhmi joyfully. Eat everything. Eat
dhokra, eat jalebi, eat whatever you like.