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Harmony in Marriage
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remember Dada twenty-four hours a day.
Many women in India and America have Dada on their
mind, twenty-four hours a day.
Questioner : The Soul does not have any gender right?
Dadashri : The Soul does not have a gender. The
prakruti has a gender. If you have a stock of ‘shining goods’,
then ‘shining goods’ will come out, and if you have a stock of
‘dark and dingy goods’, then that is what will come out.
Prakruti too, is a stock that is stored within. It is called
‘pudgal’ (body). So whatever was taken in (puran), continues
to dissipate (galan). Eating food is puran, going to the
bathroom is galan. Eating, going to the bathroom, and
breathing are all acts of pudgal parmanu (the atoms of the
physical body. Pudgal = body. Parmanu = subatomic particle
that cannot be further divided).
If one wants to be a purush (man), it will happen when
the stocks of moha (attachment) and kapat (deceit) go away.
When these two parmanus (atom complexes) of moha and
kapat unite, a woman is formed, and when krodh (anger) and
maan (pride) unite, a man is formed. Everything (the formation
of human bodies) takes place according to the science of atoms
(parmanus).
Once, a few ladies admitted to me that they have certain
major faults and wanted to know which of all their faults, was
the most detrimental to them? I told them the most detrimental
fault women have is to make others behave according to their
expectations. Every woman has a desire to make others do
what she wants. She even manages to change her husband by
means of deceit, and then makes him do what she wants. This
is wrong. It is a wrong approach. I have asked the women to
write me a promise that they will not do this. What is the reason