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Harmony in Marriage
is the big deal when everyone marries? There is a big college
(Dadashri’s Science of worldly interaction) for women and men
where they can learn how to conduct their life’s interactions
after marriage, but these people get married without educating
themselves.
If someone insults you there is no problem in accepting
the insult, but you have to keep that insult in your awareness
and remind yourself, “Is this life meant for such insults?” There
is no problem with insults, there is no need for anything that
elevates the ego, nor is there a need for anything that defeats
the ego, but is our life meant for insults? Should we not have
this awareness?
As long as the wife is sulking, he would say, “Oh God,
please help me!” When she comes back to talk to him, he
forgets everything, and God and everything else is set aside.
How intense is this puzzle? Is your suffering going to heal this
way?
What is the meaning of this world? Troubles. Even this
body is trouble. Should there be a desire for troubles? It is a
wonder indeed that there is any desire for this. A fishing net is
different from the worldly life net. With a fishnet, you can at
least cut your way through and escape, but you cannot escape
from the net of this worldly life. Even when you die, you do not
escape.
A Gnani Purush shows you a way to escape the net of
the world. He shows you the path to moksh (liberation) and
puts you on that track so that you feel that you have been
liberated from the problems of external forces forever.
How can you call this a life? How lovely life should be!
Each and every person should emit a fragrance. There would
be praises sung all around, about how wonderful a person is,