Great Scot April 2019 Great Scot_156_April_2019_Online | Page 17

The theme of this edition of Great Scot is ‘the power of boys’ voices’, and it is a valuable topic to consider. When given the right environment, support and encouragement, boys have some very powerful messages to share. The trick is in assisting them to know how to best do so. Having worked with primary-aged children for the past 40-odd years, it has been my experience that, like so many other factors in a child’s life, there is great capacity for them to have a say in their world, but they do not always have the tools to be able to do so effectively. Assisting young boys to have the confidence to share their thoughts, ideas and beliefs with others is a very important part of a teacher’s role. Boys need to be encouraged to feel their ideas are important, to have the courage to share them, and to develop the conviction to stand up for them. Even many adults can find this to be extremely challenging, and the idea of speaking up is quite stressful. For me it is all about providing opportunities for boys to develop their confidence and their capacity to speak in public. In the Junior School we do this by making public speaking a ‘normal’ activity. All of the boys regularly see Year 6 boys leading our assemblies. They see older boys delivering sports reports, and making announcements about fundraising or other activities, and they see these things as being normal. Equally, the boys have many opportunities in their classrooms to present to a smaller cohort; sometimes to their whole class or to smaller groups within the class. In Drama, the boys are provided with many tools and strategies to help them feel confident when speaking in front of others, and to share their personal views. Our House structure includes a Peer Support Program, where the boys from Years 3 to 6 are placed into smaller groups within their respective Houses. These Peer Support Groups are led by a couple of Year 6 boys, and once again they provide opportunities and avenues for boys to ‘have a voice.’ We also have a Student Representative Council which meets fortnightly, a forum where each class has a representative who takes along the ideas, concerns and questions that are important to the boys in his class. The SRC is an important way for the boys to have a say in how their school operates and what the culture should be. Of course, having the confidence and capacity to be able to speak up about things that are important to a boy is only half of the equation. Unless others have the capacity to listen and to consider what is being said, it matters little how eloquent, confident or powerful a message may be, if it falls on deaf ears then it counts for little. A key aspect of this, then, is to impress on our boys the importance of, and the need to be respectful of the thoughts, ideas and views of others. I am reminded of a discussion many years ago in a Prep classroom where the topic being discussed was sharks. One little lad spoke up and said that sharks were very dangerous and we should get rid of all of them to make the water safe. Another boy strongly objected to that idea and began criticising the first boy. Among the group a third boy then spoke up, saying to the boy objecting: ‘He is allowed to have his own ideas. Let him say what he thinks’. I felt this was a powerful message coming from a six year old, and one that we can all learn from. We try to instil in the boys that they don’t have to agree with the ideas and beliefs of others, but they do need to respect their right to hold those ideas and to be able to voice them. www.scotch.vic.edu.au Great Scot 17