GLOSS Issue 23 JULY 2015 | Page 30

Twitter account (@ANZ_AU) has more than 62,300 followers, compared to the Commonwealth (@CommBank) with 54,200, NAB with 36,900 and Westpac with 33,900. ANZ’s LinkedIn following of nearly 191,000 blitzes any of the other banks. “Every time the women talked at an event, then turned their speech into content for BlueNotes, then hosted a discussion on the topic on social media, they got great feedback,” Gome says. “Being visible is a form of giving – not an arrogant exec-selfie.” DON’T LOOK BACK Gome says women need to encourage each other to become more visible. When women confide their fears of speaking in public or question their performance, their women friends tend to empathise instead of challenging them. “We need to counter those messages, and tell each other: ‘Your hair looked great’, or ‘let it go’ when women are ruminating on their performance. We need to encourage each other to do every speaking event, from conferences to the school council. How else are we going to become more visible?” Molloy, however, believes that women need to learn to give themselves permission and to stop relying on validation. 30 GLOSS JULY 2015 “One of the things I learned when I started working for myself is that I have to market, brand and sell myself,” Molloy says. “I realised that I was wired to wait for someone to give me permission to do something.” Beware of becoming too comfortable, she says. “We all feel a bit vulnerable when we are visible, but that is a good thing. It isn’t the enemy. It means I am requiring a little more of myself.” MEMORISE THIS Women are subtly trained from our earliest moment not to blow our own trumpet, to name our talents, or to claim our achievements. That leaves us uncomfortable with selfpromotion. Yet building your public profile – in the media and elsewhere – is an essential leadership skill. We cannot become leaders if no one is aware of our abilities and experience. We need to become comfortable with self-promotion. Remember Harry Potter’s invisibility cloak? It was a magical garment that rendered whatever it covered invisible. I reckon all women are given one as young girls, and our job is to throw it off. I agree with both the ANZ’s head of social and digital media, Amanda Gome – that we must help each other