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better at it on purpose. Don't wimp out just because it's hard. You are worth it, and your relationship (that you could
have for the rest of your life) is worth it.
Here's an example of how you could apply oscillation in this situation. You set a goal of four phone calls on Saturday to
see which of your friends might be going out. You call seven people on Sunday to invite them to a bonfire at your
grandparent's farm. Yes, this means you might feel uncomfortable or nervous that only one person will show up. You'll
get used to it and learn how to manage those situations when you allow yourself to face that sort of problem.
The next weekend you don't push yourself at all. The weekend after that you aim for five phone calls on Saturday, one
to someone you don't know that well (stretching your comfort zone just a little). On Sunday you research two community
events posted online (to attend in the next week or two with a friend or by yourself).
2.The number of men you interact with on a surface level
For many women, showing up at a social event or other venue for meeting people is the easy part. Many people
struggle with the discomfort that comes from asserting themselves to initiate interactions with men. I have specifically
designed instruction materials available on my website, BeIrresistible.com, for the purpose of enhancing your skills with
the subtle art of inviting attention from men. For now, focus on applying whatever skills you currently have by oscillating.
In this situation oscillation will mean ten or fifteen minutes of purposefully pushing yourself outside your comfort zone
followed by 20 minutes of allowing yourself to retreat to your more introverted ways.
3.The number of men who see you and are impressed with you
This one can take on many different forms. The emphasis here is on the word "impressed." This particular variable
changes from one woman to another. For you it may mean pushing yourself to a new height in physical fitness. If you
are a beautiful woman with a particularly self-conscious feeling about showing off your attractive feminine features, this
one may mean practice with moving outside your comfort zone in terms of a more revealing choice from your wardrobe
(or your friend's closet if you're really bad off).
If you are particularly shy, this variable may require that you leave your comfort zone to talk more when you are around
men. How will they be impressed with your intellect or witty sense of humor if you keep it to yourself? Think about what
you know about yourself. Think about what your friends have told you when reflecting on your personality traits or style
of interacting with others. What could you work on using oscillation to increase the number of men who get the chance
to be impressed by you?
4.The number of men who know you are available and looking
This one is pretty straightforward. It either is or is not a problem for you. How do you know? It's simple. If you are
embarrassed to ask your friends to set you up, you need to work on this one. If it's some kind of secret that you won't
discuss with your extended family members, you need to work on this one.
If you're looking for a good quality man, one of the deepest reservoirs is the concept of six degrees of connection. The
idea is that every person in the world knows someone who knows you if we go six connections deep. The closer
someone is to you as a friend, the more likely they are to do a good prescreening and save you time when setting you
up on a date. Get over your fear of asking your friends and family to help you with the most important part of your life.
5.The number of recurring interactions with men that share one or more interests in common with you.
Here's the idea with this one. It's easier to strike up a conversation with someone when you share something in
common with them. For example, it's more natural and far less forced to strike up a conversation with a man who
shares your love for a particular breed of dog at a dog show. If you are into rock climbing, excuses for repeated
interaction come more easily when you meet a guy at a local rock climbing wall. It's not just that it's easy to strike up
conversations and interactions though. These are also people who you are more likely to want to partner with in life
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