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CORE CONCEPTS AND MARCHING ORDERS
I like how Mike cares about people. I like that Mike goes out of
his way to help the people in his life and thinks loyalty is the
most important thing in the world.
I like Mike’s smile. He’s got dimples and a naughty glimmer in
his eye that makes you wonder what’s going on in his head.
The first time you play this game, you’re going to feel like an egotistical
git. That’s because our culture programs us to have low self esteem and
low opinions of ourselves.
Play it anyway. Write it out longhand if you can (though typing is OK,
too. My handwriting is doctor-level bad, so I type everything). You don’t
have to share this with anyone, but you can if you want. It’s a great
game for a couple to play together, followed by a “What I Like About
You” variation.
Simply by focusing on the POSITIVES about yourself, you’re going to RE-
PROGRAM your mind. Confident people and people who like them-
selves have better relationships.
I really can’t harp on this one enough. So much of seduction, whether
it’s with someone new or with someone you’ve been with in the past, is
MENTAL. If you truly BELIEVE that you are someone your ex SHOULD
be with, is BETTER OFF with, and will be HAPPY with, it’ll make your
job so much easier.
Core Concept #3: You’re Single! DATE!!
I know. Dating sucks. The meet market is a cold and horrible place,
full of frightening people and bad music.
But it can also be a lot of fun. And as painful as it sounds, one of the
best ways to get your ex to notice you again is for you to go out, date,
and actually HAVE FUN.
I’m not saying you should hop into bed with a lot of people or get into a
serious thing with somebody else (you shouldn’t). But I am saying that
it’s VERY important for you to go out, date, and realize that you are an
attractive and interesting person.
By dating you’ll . . .
• Raise your own self esteem.
• Hone your “game” for when it’s time to go after your ex again (be-
cause you’re going to start at the beginning and DATE your ex
again . . . not just fall into the same old pattern).
• Learn to appreciate the good things you and your ex had.
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