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CORE CONCEPTS AND MARCHING ORDERS Core Concept #1: Your Old Relationship Is DEAD (and it’s never coming back) This one might hurt a little bit. Your old relationship with your ex is DEAD (as a doornail, as communism in Russia, as Michael Jackson. It’s a dead parrot, mate.) The moment you or your ex officially broke things off (and maybe even BEFORE that), your relationship was led to the gallows and fed to a rabid shark. If you go into this process trying to “get your old relationship back,” you’re going to fail. You and your ex are both different people now than you were the last time you were together, whether that was two months ago or twenty years ago. (Human body cells replace themselves com- pletely every few months, so I’m actually being literal here.) Instead of trying to recreate your OLD relationship (which probably ended for a reason), we’re going to try to create a NEW and BETTER relationship with your ex, hopefully without all the same hang ups and deal breakers you suffered through before. So really, the fact that your old relationship is dead is a GOOD thing. It means in a lot of ways you can wipe the slate clean and create the relationship (positive, sexy, fun) that you both deserve. Mourn your old relationship. Pour back your whiskey. Do a jig. Have a wake. Cry it out. And then get ready to birth something new and awesome. Core Concept #2: Forgiveness Is Power Before we officially start this process you need to do two very important things. 1. You need to forgive your ex for whatever they may have said or done that led to your breaking up Plain and simple, FORGIVENESS IS POWER. As long as you hold a grudge against your ex, you’re giving them power over your life and your emotions. Now, I’m not saying you should forget the words 21