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Gender Roles
To avoid this situation, make sure that the little boy aspect
of you can never make decisions without first getting the
approval of the man aspect of you. You’re allowed to feel,
but you can’t allow those feelings to influence your decision-
making process when you’re in a relationship. Be logical about
making decisions that will make your relationship better in
the future, and let the women you are with focus on making
themselves happy and using their abilities as empathizers to
solicit emotions out of you and to make you happy.
At this point, you’re probably wondering how to very clearly
play the male gender role so that you avoid all the problems
I’ve outlined here. It’s vital that you are aware of the image
you are projecting at all times.
Let’s say that you’re walking in a public park with the goal
of meeting as many random people as possible. Whatever
default mode you’re in is the mode in which you are going to
attract women. So if your default mode is to play the female
gender role, women who also want to play that role will not
be attracted to you. In fact, you’ll start to attract women
who play the male gender role by default and, typically, they
will not be attractive to you. This is why you have to be
conscious of always demonstrating the male gender role.
To recap: if you lose control of your emotions and fail to
play the male gender role, women will not feel safe to lose
control of their emotions around you, though it is their
right to play the female gender role and empathize or feel
without inhibition. A woman playing the female gender role
will like to be with men who make her feel feminine, who
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