INTroduCTION 6
you taking the time to read this book? You are significantly more likely to attain your goals if you can concretely explain to yourself why you want them, not simply what they are.
So tell me why you’ re learning. Think about it carefully. Whatever you hope to gain from this, you will gain at some point. If you fail to uncover your true intentions and set appropriate goals accordingly, you will not be happy with what you attain.
When I initially started learning this, I was very clear about what I wanted to get out of it:“ I want to gain the ability to attract my wife when I finally meet her.” The last thing I wanted was to meet the woman of my dreams and stand there and stare at her not knowing what to say, clueless about how to attract her, and unsure of how to move forward. Eliminating that possibility, that was my intention.
Unfortunately, I know a lot of guys who started studying this without getting their intentions straight first. They studied and applied their knowledge until they arrived at the point they thought they wanted to be, only to find that they weren’ t satisfied with it. They had nothing left except to say that their intention was only to sleep with a bunch of beautiful women.
If that’ s your intention, that will happen. But the problem is that the moment you achieve that goal, you have nowhere else to go, nothing new to achieve, nothing higher to strive for. Your success begins to stall and you hit what is known as“ a glass ceiling,” which means that you can see something desirable( metaphorically on the other side of the ceiling),
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