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If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back your ex immediately but this is not the best step to take. One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you were and still are to them. Here's how to pull it off. 1 - Be strong. No one desires a needy mate and this applies very well when it comes to broken relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and actually taking steps towards moving on. When you've begun to move on, your ex will realize that they have not and may fear losing you forever. 2 - Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was. 3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful or demanding with your ex. Be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play. 4 - Get out and about! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem. 5 - Simply be the person they fell in love with. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being that person and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place.