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Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a
good feeling. And, anything good that happens because of it will always
be sullied a little because of the lie.
Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else,
or they pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a ploy to make
the ex jealous. While it does work now and then, other times it makes
the breakup permanent because it backfires. These are stupid games.
Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone
else that they want you back. Or they could decide that since you moved
on so quickly, you don’t really care about them anyway. You have no
way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late.
What is the right game? Honesty is always the right game. If you cannot
be honest as you relate to your ex, do them and you a favor and move
on!
Don’t be mean spirited. This holds true in any situation or any
relationship but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act
more viciously than we normally might.
Now, think about how you’ve been acting. If you were your ex, would
you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you? Or would
you dread each time? Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising
all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling your
anger and hurt, and being a person they might want to be with.
Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them
to you in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will miss
them. Then you’ll have a better chance of being able to get back
together with your ex.
5 Ways to Remind Your Ex
Of Who You Really Are!
Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and maintained in
order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately,
break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and
frustrating.
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