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Generation Gap
If you prepare to retaliate, you will be pulled into his trap.
So many people have tried to thwart me but they have lost at their
own game, because I never think about retaliation. When you
even think about retaliation, you will lose your strength of character.
A shilvan person is someone who remains calm in all
adversities. If someone tries to harm a shilvan, he would not be
able to do so. The moment the aggressor sees his face; he would
lose his nerve to do harm. Such is the impact of a shilvan. If you
prepare to retaliate in any situation, you will lose your shil; your
inner strength. Let others do whatever they wish. Such a person
is one with every one else.
(P.542)
When faced with conflicts, we are forced to prepare for
our own defense. When we do this, we fall. Now, after this Gnan,
we no longer have the ammunition to retaliate. The other person
may have the weapon so let him use it. Everything is vyavasthit
and that vyavasthit is such that his own weapon will hurt him.
Later Mashroor brought her own father, a doctor, for Dada’s
darshan. If a person has problems, all he has to do is come to me
and his work will be done.
(P.549)
All your problems can be solved. Each word of mine will
carry a solution for your problems and take you all the way to
moksha. So Adjust everywhere.
(P.550)
HAPPINESS IN LIFE THROUGH SERVICE
Children who see faults in their parents will never be happy.
They may have material wealth, but they would never be happy
spiritually. You must never see faults in your parents. How can
you forget what they have done for you? You do not forget
someone’s kindness even when they offer you a cold drink on a
hot day, so how can you forget your parents’ kindness?