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not see this but I can see everything. Wherever there is insincerity,
there can never be happiness. You should remain sincere. When
you get married, you should accept whatever mistakes the other
person had made prior to the marriage and after that both of you
should remain sincere to each other. You should not look at anyone
else after your marriage. Once you are married, you must remain
sincere, whether you like it or not. Do you not remain sincere to
your mother, even when you do not like her? Are you not sincere
to her even when she has disagreeable traits?
(P.540)
Questioner : I accept that everything happens according
to my own karma. But how do I deal with an insincere husband
with equanimity?
Dadashri : If your husband is insincere, how can you win
him over? Whatever your fate has in store, it will not leave you
alone. Things do not go according to our wishes in this world.
Come to me and I will give you guidance and knowledge of how
to deal with him.
In Aurangabad, a Muslim girl named Masroor came to our
satsang. I asked her to come and sit next to me. She looked into
my eyes and felt a sense of peace and decided to stay. She told
me that she was a lecturer and her fiancé was a lawyer in Pakistan
and that they were to be married in six months. I told her that at
the moment she was happy, but what would she do if after getting
married, her husband made her unhappy. Did she have some sort
of a plan as to how she would handle such a situation? Surely she
must have thought about how she would get along with her
husband. She told me that she was prepared. If he were to say
something to her, she would have a response for it. She said that
she had a response for everything he could possibly say.
Just like Russia and USA, she had prepared for a cold