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Generation Gap
Penance is necessary on the path of liberation. In these
times, one does not have to go outside of his home seeking
penance, as did the aspirants of the past. Penance readily occurs
in the form of conflict with other family members. You should
consider yourselves fortunate that such instruments of penance
are found in your own homes and view them as instruments of
benefit for your spiritual development.
Even Lord Mahavir, in search of penance, had to leave his
kingdom, to go to areas inhabited by uncivilized tribes. You, on
the other hand, find such penance within your own homes. When
a son speaks rudely to his father, the father thinks to himself that
had he known that his life would be reduced to this, he would
never have married and had children. But unfortunately one does
not come to this realization until it is too late.
Questioner : Does this mean that when we encounter
unfavorable circumstances, our focused awareness (upayog)
should be towards the Self?
Dadashri : All unfavorable circumstances in life are
beneficial for your spiritual progress. They are vitamin for the Soul.
In times of crisis, does one not withdraw into his real Self? If
someone were to insult you right now, your focus would not remain
in the external world and you would become one with your Soul.
This is applicable only for those who have acquired the knowledge
of the Self. (P.298)
Questioner : Who will take care of us in our old age?
Dadashri : Why do you have such expectations? It would
be enough if your children do not abuse you. Do not expect to be
cared for in your old age. Only about five percent of children take
care of their parents; the rest mistreat them.
(P.299)