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Generation Gap
Therefore, you must learn how to deal with them.
(P.177)
Questioner : When our grown up sons are fighting amongst
themselves and we realize they will not come to any understanding,
what should we do?
Dadashri : Have a talk with them and tell them it is not
worth fighting. Such internal fights will result in financial ruin.
Questioner : And if they are still not ready to listen, then
what?
Dadashri : Let it be. Let it be.
Questioner : When they fight amongst themselves, things
get out of control and we wonder how the problem becomes
greater.
Dadashri : Let them learn their lesson. By fighting amongst
themselves they will eventually come to their senses. They will not
be receptive if you keep preaching to them. This world is meant
to be observed.
(P.177)
In reality, they are nobody’s children. It is because of your
past accounts that you have been burdened with them, so you
should try your best to help them, but remain detached from within.
(P.178)
Who is the first to complain? In Kaliyug, the current era of
the time cycle there is no unity of thoughts, speech and conduct,
and so it is always the guilty one who complains first. In Satyug,
the past era of the time cycle when there was unity of thoughts,
speech and conduct, it was always the innocent person who
complained first. In this era, people who dispense justice will
always favor the one who comes forward first and is the first to
speak.
(P.178)