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Now we go back to Rebecca’s and Jock’s children and end with their youngest son: L ESLIE: 1908 – 1985. Leslie was to marry Ruby Anderson and become my Father. Les was the conscientious, good-looking, conventional, somewhat humourless and moody child who grew up to be the conscientious, good-looking, conventional, somewhat humourless and moody Adult! As I’ve said, Leslie as a child had a hard time with his demanding, slower but older adopted brother Bertie who made his life at school tiresome. And, although he never spoke about these times one could surmise that he suffered from the aftereffects of his Father’s alcoholism, his Mother’s financial stresses and the numerous crying infants that crowded their home and filled it with demands and noise. His behaviour and attitudes and moods sadly pointed directly back to his childhood. There was one great interest and pleasure that young Leslie developed and carried through to his Retirement days: he loved chickens, hens and all Poultry matters. He developed his own little poultry ‘farm’ in the backyard of his family home when he was a child and delighted in supplying his ‘Mum’ with new laid eggs. When he was busy with his hens and reading up about poultry farming he could find the peace and quiet he craved. Les as a child worked hard at Boys Model School. He was ambitious to succeed and he must have been distressed that he had to leave school after Standard 8. He valued education highly but he was now expected to contribute to the family coffers and Get a Job. Les who felt sympathy and a deep love for his Mother would have taken this responsibility seriously. He applied to Town Hall and was given a position as Meter Reader which meant that he spent his days on a bicycle traipsing the streets and country roads of Maritzburg in order to read the water and electricity meters of the residents. His worst aversions were the Maritzburg heat and the encountering of vicious dogs and one feels a definite sympathy for him and for others who perform these jobs still today. It must have been during Les’ early working life that he found an interest that got him out the house, gave him peace and quiet and time to think. He joined a competitive Walking club and eventually became a much-medalled Champion Walker. In being a Walker the rule was that no running was allowed and so long-legged fast walking speed was aimed for. Here is Les at about twenty as a Chamption Walker Leslie at work must have been promoted to some sort of office job at Town Hall and to his relief could now ditch the bicycle, the dogs and the Maritzburg sun which was always the bane of his life. When he clocked out for lunch he had to take a long obligatory walk home to endure his Mother’s piping hot soups and stews for the midday dinner. In all his life after marriage my Mother was not allowed to serve anything other than salads for lunch! Why he didn’t take a sandwich to work for lunch is puzzling: certain ‘laws of lunch’ were in motion and to break them was tantamount to breaking a Commandment. On the other hand, being a domestically 61