If we are being honest, most guys first look to see how attractive the girl is to him or if there is some kind of chemistry between them. This is the case nine times out of ten. Most guys are very visual and quickly sum up the impression they have received from a girl in a matter of seconds. So yes, the FIRST thing they look at is appearance. However, it is important to realize that being attractive doesn’t necessarily mean hot or gorgeous. It means being comfortable in your own skin. It means you take more of an interest in other people than in yourself and make other people feel good around you. If guys aren’t noticing you as much as you’d like, think about what message you are sending. Remember the most beautiful girl in the room is the one with a smile on her face who is kind to those around her, rather than the mean girl with the trendiest clothes and perfect hair.
What do guys think about and look for when they FIRST meet a girl?