To begin with, you need to be willing to take a risk and reach out to become friends. It is easy to be afraid of rejection even on a friend level. So approach the guy you want to be friends with confidently. Not cocky, but just self-assured that you know who you are as a person and you like yourself. You can find confidence by knowing in your heart that you are a good person who is loved by God and others, and what this one guy thinks of you will not define you. Confidence will also help you relax. (For help with this check out our Self-Worth eBook.)
After this, it’s simply a matter of taking an interest in things the other person is interested in, sharing pieces of your life with her, and most importantly, letting time develop the relationship naturally.
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