8. you dont respect each other
If you don’t care whether your actions will embarrass, disappoint or hurt your partner, you don’t respect him or her. When one of you constantly feels demeaned or condescended to, your relationship is in trouble. This is especially true if the one who is being disrespectful doesn’t realize he or she is doing so and makes no effort to change. The only direction this relationship can go is down.
9.you start cheating
When one or both of you starts looking for romantic excitement outside the relationship, you have drifted apart. Some people cheat and then blame the partner for driving them to do it, which shows a lack of respect. If one of you cheats one time and is truly remorseful, the two of you can work things out, but if one of you is a serial cheater, there is no hope of saving the relationship.
10 real communication ends
when you talk about are mundane things such as errands you did that day, you are in danger of losing intimacy. If you are not talking with your lover about your innermost feelings and thoughts, the relationship is in trouble. You and your lover should be discussing your hopes, dreams, likes, dislikes and any problems. You have surely drifted away if you are talking about these intimate subjects with someone else instead of your lover.