Fete Lifestyle Magazine July 2023 - Sports & Fitness Issue | Page 82

DC: Your daily routine consists of journaling. When did you start that practice and how has writing improved your life and relationships?

KH: I started

during training camp

with the Houston Texans.

I was mentally going

through it, and I just

wanted a safe space to

talk and express myself

because telling anyone

seemed impossible.

It has improved my life

and relationships

dramatically. I believe

everyone needs to have

that space to express themselves without

judgement or worry.

My journal is that. And

it’s the place where I

workout my feelings, I

workout my thoughts,

and come to conclusions. Sometimes you don’t

know what’s true and

what’s not, you don’t

know if you’re flying

towards the sky, or

towards the ground.

Journaling keeps me

honest. That honest

paper trail of on that day,

I felt like X. It’s funny,

when I sometimes feel

bad, and that things have

never been good, I turn

back 2 pages (2 days ago)

and its “Oh my gosh Lord

all is well! Thank you!

Thank you! Thank you!”

LOL. Those moments

bring me back down and

make me realize I could

just be experiencing a

mood drop and I need to

just monitor it, not panic

or spiral.

DC: You train a lot of Chicago celebrities. Explain how their fitness goals compare with your regular clients.

KH: We talked about this at today’s session. All of our

success starts with us

(individually).

We wake up early, we beat the body, we tell it what we are going to do. That is us setting the tone for the rest of the day. Many creatives and successful corporate folk all experience

to do, you will not tell me.

Everyone needs to be strong; everyone needs to be conditioned, everyone needs mobility, everyone needs lean muscle for longevity in life. But what we need the most is discipline and self-control, that’s the muscle we train the most.