The Woof Woof
Let’s face it. Some men are just plain old dawgs. I think if all men are true with themselves we can truly agree upon that fact. Some guys were once dawgs in high school or college, but moved on from that phase of their life. That’s a really great thing, but for some men, no matter how good looking, successful, intelligent, caring, or loving their woman is they will stray anyway. Believe it or not, most unfaithful men say that they really do love their significant others and are happy at home. But with dawgs, it really makes no difference. Some guys think it’s the way that they’re wired that causes them to hunt and eventually become unfaithful.
Let me explain as one male described. “Men naturally have intellectual curiosity and animal like instincts. Men’s brains are wired in such a way that curiosity is peaked by fast shiny things such as sports cars, expensive watches, or by finer things in life like a rare vintage bottle of wine. Men love sports and teams that show dominance (no guy ever rooted for synchronized swimming), so anything that they feel that they can control they become attracted to.” Now, I’m not going to say that men feel that they can control women, but they do like to control the situation when they’re in pursuit of a woman. Let’s call it the “pursuit of happiness”. He’s also not comparing women to fast shiny objects, but I guess what he’s trying to say is that men are simple. We know what we like and then we go for it. And sometimes it’s simply wanting to experience something different or new that prompts someone to cheat. Some men like variety and sometimes get bored easily, which could spell disaster for a relationship. The good news is not every man is described as above, but there are a lot of truths as it relates to the curiosity and animal like instincts (I think it’s been documented by the way).
But back to the dawgs. Are all men dawgs? Absolutely not! In-fact, there are many less dawgs than good guys out there. Most men can control their “animal instincts” to pounce on anything and everything and start humping. But for those that can’t resist they are most likely the ones to be doing the “woof woof”. Ladies, you can’t stop a dawg from being a dawg. If you’re with a guy that is not treating you the way that you want to be treated, it’s time to move on, because you’re going nowhere fast. Stop telling yourself that he will eventually change, because he won’t. And YOU can’t change him either. A dawg will most likely have spurned several other women before you, all for his gain. And doesn’t care about anyone but himself. Most good guys don’t hang around or have much respect for real dawgs.
The main question that women want to know when they discover that their man stepped out them is why? To really find out the answer you have to ask your guy, because that’s where it starts. However, hopefully you’ve been enlightened by some of the reasons why this could have happened that will help you work on your relationship. It truly comes down to communication, expectations, and respect between two people that will determine if a relationship will blossom and stay the course. If someone is unfaithful in a relationship it doesn’t mean that the relationship has to end. If you’re in it to win it, then you must continue to work on it. But, it never hurts to have a little more perspective surrounding such a controversial topic, especially from the people that are the responsible party. I now challenge you to share this information with your friends, both male and female, to get their thoughts. As you know everyone has an opinion and knowledge is power. Here’s to the love in your life and may it only continue to get better!
The main question that women want to know when they discover that their man stepped out them is why? To really find out the answer you have to ask your guy, because that’s where it starts. However, hopefully you’ve been enlightened by some of the reasons why this could have happened that will help you work on your relationship. It truly comes down to communication, expectations, and respect between two people that will determine if a relationship will blossom and stay the course. If someone is unfaithful in a relationship it doesn’t mean that the relationship has to end. If you’re in it to win it, then you must continue to work on it. But, it never hurts to have a little more perspective surrounding such a controversial topic, especially from the people that are the responsible party. I now challenge you to share this information with your friends, both male and female, to get their thoughts. As you know everyone has an opinion and knowledge is power. Here’s to the love in your life and may it only continue to get better!