Family & Life Magazine Issue 4 | Page 18

NURTURE Happiness Howl Is Just A Family & Life chats with SPCA Education Manager Selina Sebastian and discovers what pets are suitable for your child and how animals teach your child about the world. Animals are adorable, make wonderful additions to the family and can teach your children valuable life lessons. However, with great power (over a life) comes great responsibility. Selina Sebastian, Education Manager at the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Singapore (SPCA), reveals more. Three- to Seven-Year-Olds Selina: At this age, it’s important that parents be heavily involved in raising a pet with their children because most kids have not fully developed their mental faculties for the heavy responsibility of owning a pet. It’s also vital that both parent and child must want a pet because it’s very natural for a child to lose interest in the pet over time, which might result in him or her abandoning the pet, and we wouldn’t want that! Photographs @ SPCA Within this age range, most animals are suitable starter pets, as long as the parents are also mentally and emotionally invested in caring for the animal as well. However, I wouldn’t recommend: Learning About Responsible Pet Ownership Ready for you and your children to take the first step? Before taking the furry plunge, Selina recommends that you and your kids interact regularly with animals first, whether it’s at a pet shelter or even the house of a relative who has a pet. Learning about animals from books, the Internet and perhaps this article also helps prepare you and your children for the complexities of owning a pet. And lastly, Selina highly recommends adopting a pet rather than buying a new animal from the store! “When you adopt, you’re teaching your child the value of a life, as you’re saving an animal and giving him or her a home! There are so many homeless animals. Why would you buy one when there are so animals that need a place to stay?” 18 Family & Life • Dec 2013/Jan 2014 • Small animals such as hamsters and guinea pigs Many people have the misconception that small pets are easy to take care of but in reality, most tiny animals are skittish creatures and tend to run away when facing something bigger – all the more pertinent because young children tend to be more exuberant and might accidentally hurt or even lose the pet if they’re not careful. Away • Rabbits These furry, cute animals are prey animals, which means everything is a threat to them. Loud noises scare them and most of them actually don’t like to be carried. They also prefer being as close to the ground as possible due to their nature and being hoisted high up in th R