Family & Life Magazine Issue 12 | Page 8

COVERSTORY  HE RT Serving with You might know him as the PAP candidate who challenged the leading opposition party and lost. Twice. But, there is more to Desmond Choo than what you read in the papers or see in the videos. It’s hard not to like Desmond Choo. The soft-spoken 36-year-old possesses that rare ability – one much sought after by numerous politicians – to put you at ease with an imperceptible nod of his head and a sincere, welcoming smile. The rimless glasses that perch precariously on his nose accentuate his kindly eyes while the rest of his features tells the story of a typical Singaporean boy who grew up in an environment just like you and me, studying hard, working harder and finally making good. His face is tailor-made for kissing babies and shaking voters’ hands, for the cauldron of politics. And yet, despite being backed by the might and extensive resources of the country’s dominant political party, Desmond lost in two successive elections – the 2010 General Elections followed by the 2011 by-election – in the same constituency. Granted, he was contesting in the Hougang ward, a stronghold of the leading opposition party for more than two decades. But that fact did little to soothe his wounds. The former civil servant admits that the defeats were tough to deal with. As if failure was not a bitter enough pill to swallow, it was made more difficult because the aftertaste of the first had barely left his tongue when he had to down another. Desmond shares with me how he wrestled with his internal demons when news of his loss finally reached him. “It’s not easy,” he says quietly. “That it could be some of the same people whom you tirelessly served who decided to tell you with their votes that you are not the one they want makes it worse.” He started questioning whether he should return to the ground of his defeat, to continue helping the same people who had turned their backs on him. As he surveyed the group of volunteers working alongside him, the answer soon became clear. “I asked myself: was I there to genuinely help or to merely canvass for votes? If I’m there to really make a difference to the people, then I had to return. It is only right,” says Desmond. Between 2011 and 2014, Desmond and his team still diligently helped the people of Hougang with their everyday struggles. Along the way, he’s happy to have made many new friends, a large majority of whom, he shares with a laugh, viewed him with suspicion when he first walked the ground. “A few years back, I had gone to a coffee shop when three middleaged folks called me over and asked me to sit down with them because they wanted to order coffee for me and chat with me,” recalls Desmond. Hot coffee in hand, the three of them told Desmond that they could never vote for him out of principle. However, they were more than happy to advise him on how to improve in the political field. Now, whenever Desmond pops by that coffee shop and spots the three of them, he happily sits down for a chat. Sometimes, they talk about politics but most of the time, they talk about everything else under the sun. After all, that’s what friends do. Don’t forget the coffee. CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE FUTURE A year ago, Desmond left the labour movement and headed to the private sector, becoming one of the righthand men of Singaporean tycoon Peter Lim. Remember the much-publicised deal that Lim agreed with the Valencia CF Foundation to buy over Valencia CF, the Spanish football club, a few months ago? Desmond was part of the team working behind the scenes to broker the multi-million Euro agreement. Theirs was not the only offer on the table. There were a few other groups looking to take over the storied football club with the centuryold history that had fallen on hard times. They promised more money or a rosier future, yet the trustees of 8 Family & Life • Sep 2014