Faith Filled Family 2015 Issue 2 | Page 9

Submission IS NOT Being Submissive By Vernita Simmons O ne great means for a marriage to be successful is for the husband and wife to learn and activate godly principles in the area of submission. Unfortunately, the issue of submitting within the world and the Body of Christ has been seriously misconstrued. To fully grasp what submission truly involves, you must abide by God’s biblical principles and the order in which He established it. severely distorted. And for a Christian marriage to serve as an exemplary model, they must refrain from following the pattern of the world’s system because it craves for the lust of the flesh, the eye and the pride of life. “For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh-craving for sensual gratification and the lust of life-assurance in one’s own resources or in the stability of earthly things-these do not come Modern society’s idea of a from the Father but are from the wife being submissive to her world itself.” (I John 2:19). husband has been twisted and Having such an insatiable appetite for worldly pleasures will cause a marriage to be topsy-turvy ~ wacky-crazy and utterly defeated. The Greek word for submission is “huptotasso”- hoop-ot-as’-so from 5259 and 5021; which means subordinate; reflexively, to obey:-be under obedience (obedient), put under, subdue unto, (be, make) subject (to, unto), be (put) in subjection (to, under), submit self unto. (1) Most women are turned off by such a decree, for they perceive submission as being used,