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ESTATE, PRE-PLANNING, AND SYMPATHY
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Estate, Pre-Planning, & Sympathy – pg. 1-2, 7-8
Classifieds – pg. 3-5 Going Out – pg. 6
Personalized funeral services
Traditional funeral services are still the standard for commemorating the passing of loved ones. Many take comfort in time-honored traditions when a loved one has passed. However, these ceremonies have seen a shift from sober gatherings to occasions that celebrate and honor a life
Personalizing funeral services is a way to honor lost loved ones. lived. As such, today’ s funeral homes are now offering a full range of personalized services to serve all tastes and budgets following a personal loss.
It’ s becoming increasingly common to hold individualized memorial services to highlight and celebrate the personality of the deceased. More and more funeral homes are displaying personal objects depicting the pastimes, passions and professions of the recently departed. Funeral directors can also display respectful videos or slideshows as a tribute to those who’ ve passed. Music, decor, ambiance, buffets, even the releasing of balloons or doves; all these details can be arranged to provide family and friends the ideal setting to express their emotions.
The tribute paid to lost loved ones differs from person to person and family to family. From the religious procession to the memorial service, funeral homes offer a full range of services specifically tailored to honor the deceased.
Power of attorney
A power of attorney, or POA, is a legal document in which a person appoints another( the“ attorney-in-fact”) to act in his or her name in certain matters. A durable POA is used to designate a person to manage one’ s financial affairs until the death of the“ grantor”. It is deemed invalid if the grantor becomes mentally incapable and, therefore, no longer capable of granting that power. In some states, it is possible to grant a“ springing” power of attorney. In this case, the attorney-in-fact may only assume the management of the grantor’ s financial affairs and property once mental incapacity is deemed to have taken place. Similarly, in some jurisdictions a health care proxy agreement may be granted, in which a designated person may make end-of-life and other health care decisions on behalf of the grantor.
A POA document does not necessarily need to be drafted by a lawyer; however it can be very useful to consult with a lawyer if the circumstances of a situation seem less than clear. A notarized POA is more likely to stand up to any third-party challenge. It is also recommended that a copy be given to the grantor’ s bank and lawyer to keep on file.
Naturally, there are some important things to think about in choosing a person to manage one’ s personal finances and property. Naming one adult child or sibling as attorney can sometimes cause conflict within a family. Naming a trust company, lawyer, or close friend might be one way to deal with this; alternatively, naming additional family members as POAs is an option. In every case, it is advisable to require, in the document, that all decisions and actions be reported to specified family members on a regular basis.
Power of attorney specifications and formats vary from state to state; it is advisable to read up carefully on the subject and consult with a lawyer who can advise on the particularities of your situation.
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Coping with loss and grief
The loss of a loved one triggers physical, psychological and emotional reactions that can be difficult to overcome. It’ s an inevitable part of life that will forever be a source of suffering and anxiety for each and every one of us. And although unbearable at first, pain is a sign that the healing process has begun.
Mourning will vary greatly from person to person, but we all tend to experience common stages of grief. There’ s an immediate sense of shock and denial upon first losing a loved one. Once this disbelief subsides, feelings of anger and sadness surface as we slowly recognize the magnitude of the loss. These emotions are ultimately replaced by a sense of acceptance as we begin to move forward and deal with the reality of our situation.
There are no set rules or guidelines when it comes to mourning because we all go about it in our own way. It’ s important to be patient with yourself and allow yourself to experience and express the full range of your emotions. There’ s no set timetable for when you should start feeling better. Some days will be more difficult than others; the pain you experience might even intensify or subside from one hour to the next. According to specialists, a period of mourning can sometimes last for months or even years, and under no circumstances should it be hurried or forced. If the pain becomes too overwhelming, talking with someone, writing or even drawing can help you cope with your emotions.
Sometimes, overcoming the loss of someone dear to us seems next to impossible. And even though grief tends to make you feel isolated, it’ s important to know that you’ re not alone. Most neighborhoods have support groups that can help with the mourning process. Members will listen to you and share their personal experiences, which can be a great comfort during the initial period of bereavement. There’ s also a wealth of online forums, chat rooms and resources that provide similar services. However, it’ s important to recognize when your pain becomes more than just grief. Consult a doctor if you begin to have symptoms of severe insomnia, anxiety or depression.
Grieving the loss of a loved one can take months and even years.
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