Encantado Magazine august Issue | Page 17

Exercise & Depression My anxiety was almost always with me, and every so often, in certain situations would have a full blown panic attack. I lived like this for over 20 years, and 2 suicide attempts. It seemed I had a medication for every issue I was dealing with. I can’t say they didn’t help, but i won’t say it didn’t also came with a price. Addiction, codependency, and side effects. I was on medication so long, I was frequently having them represcribed in lower or high- er dosages just to keep them working. I lived a latter part of my life, a zombie. I even had medication to help give me energy when my levels were low and I still simply couldn’t get out of bed. From there I became a couch po- tato, gained lots of weight, and developed agoraphobia (a fear of leaving ones home, or traveling far from home) I remained inside, and although I may have seemed happy...I was suffering far worse than ever. My body shifted from becoming inactive to the point I devel- oped physical ailments from lack of physical activities. Still I took my medication faithfully as prescribed. Day in, day out. Day after day, night after night till I became so blank with emotions and was simply living to die. May- be had I kept my mind clear in the beginning and truly believed that the medications were a quick relief while still trying to find a per- manent one, I may not have sunk so deep to the point I allowed the medications to dictate my life instead of the other way around. After looking at myself in the mirror 20 plus years later, and seeing just how truly miserable I was. How unsuccessful I was with any progress in my life, how depressed I was still after all these years...I cried. I felt like there had to be more than this mundane life for me. I wanted to get out and truly enjoy what time I had left. To be with my children, and grandchildren. I wanted to create happy memories and not have them all see me locked up in my room with curtains drawn and me just there...in bed. Refusing to get up or get dressed to go out for a simple meal even to just get out of the house. Their arms hugged me with joy, but their faces spoke a different story. A story of sadness, disap- pointment, heartache. They relished in delight at any moment I had “a good day”. I had to do something. I wasn’t sure yet, but I knew I had to change something. My life was dark, wet, lonely and cold. I viewed my life and my sur- roundings through surreal eyes. I lived simply for the night so that I may go to sleep and not deal with anything. Sleep became my friend. Now bare in mind...this was all me even with medication. Whatever my prescriptions once fixed, my body after so long, became immune and numb. Against my doctors orders I decid- ed to wean myself off everything. I mean ev- ery single last one of them. Even my pain pills, right down to my 800 mg ibuprofen. I refilled what prescriptions I had left, and allowed my- self the time I needed to slowly decrease them. I even cut meds into 3rd’s, 4th’s, etc. to make sure I weaned off the best way I could. I prayed for answers that would allow me to be success- ful and not worsen my depression for taking the meds against how they were prescribed for me. All I could do was hope, and pray for success. My withdraw stages were so awful. I became even more sick than ever before. More depressed, worse panic and anxieties along with nausea, sweats and hot flashes. I swear, I and everyone in my life thought I would surely die soon. I refused to go to ER’s, or any doctors at this time for fear they would represcribe meds after saying my life depended on it. Or something to that affect. So I steered clear from any doctors. Low and behold the with- 17