Eidelman & Associates Things to know about Divorce Mediation | Page 3

So, what happens during the divorce mediation proceedings?
No matter what happens, nor what the situation or extenuating circumstances are, divorce
mediation proceedings will always be complicated and upsetting. Unfortunately, there is no
way to prepare for this. However, it is possible to research and thus understand exactly what
will happen during divorce mediation, just to make the process smoother. A divorce mediation
is when an objective third party (neutral from both sides of the case) helps the divorcing couple
decide outcomes on various legalities that occur while undergoing divorce. This will typically
be through a court appointed session, but private mediators are also available to those who
would prefer that. (It is worth noting that a private mediator will most likely be more expensive
than a court appointed mediator, but some people prefer them as they only work for themselves
and may be more invested in the case). Mediation will usually consist of a few different
negotiations and business points: alimony, custody of any animals or children, the allocation of
physical property, the allocation of separate retirement accounts and the division of any
outstanding debts.