EESTEC Magazine Vol 33 2013/2 | Page 42

Soft Skills Text: Nermin Smaji? Photographs: Web Dear readers, In today’s life „soft skills“ is a term which is widely recognized and in literature or on the internet in different articles there are different points of view and different de?nitions of what soft skills actually are. Many of those de?nitions have one thing in common which is that soft skills are non-technical personality-speci?c skills which enhance the effectiveness of an individual in every area of life. When said in every stage of life, it understands that having soft skills, or having more developed soft skills, will in?uence an individual’s personal life through better relations with other people, more effective communication, easier adapting to unexpected situations and easier handling dif?cult situations which might occur throughout life. Even if soft skills are not easy to measure or to de?ne the level which one person possesses, they can be constantly improved and through improving and working on them you will always keep learning new things. In order to become better in what we do, working on the improvement of soft skills is a must. Exactly this idea was recognized more than 5 years ago in EESTEC when the work on establishing our Training System started. Throughout the years many EESTECers had an opportunity to participate in soft skills trainings and through theoretical and practical parts directly worked on improving their skills. When it comes to which topics soft skills include, there is a big variety and from different points of view one is considered to be more important than others. In the following text you can ?nd inputs how to improve soft skills and tips and tricks for improving concrete soft skills which are among the most important ones and which can take your involvement in EESTEC but also in your private life on a higher level. 1. Set goals and be self-motivating The basis of success and improving soft skills is having personal goals. If you don’t know where you are going how can you take the right path? Having clear short-term or long-term goals and being always aware of them is the fundament for having motivation to improve. If you really want to achieve the goals you have, you will starve for ?nding ways of how to reach those. Obstacles may and will arrive but they are nothing compared to the feeling you have when you achieve big goals and you are heading towards your dreams coming true. All the experiences you get through achieving your goals are directly in?uencing on your personal development. If the goal seems unreachable don’t change it, change your approach! “What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.” Henry David Thoreau 2. Be a team player and communicate effectively Communication is as old as the existence of human kind. From the ?rst men until today we are communicating and obviously there is no visible end. Only this fact that the communication is the basis for functioning of human beings is already a fact worth giving it some try to improve it. Looking today, when communication skills are appreciated as never before and they are developed into many areas, verbal, non-verbal, virtual communication 42