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D I V O R C E 4 1 1 still didn’t get it - I should have known better! At that point, I realized I had to do some selfevaluation so I could break the pattern and figure out why this kept happening over and over. After many months, and many late nights, I plunged deep into myself which revealed The Many M’s of Me – Finally I am Freemy recently release book that showed me a clear perspective of myself which helped me makes the changes I needed to overcome and identify destructiverelationship patterns. I'm imagining you're laughing right now saying “Yeah, Right!” I truly hopethat’s not the case. If you are, then I strongly recommendand "huggingly" suggest that you keep practicing the self- awareness exercises from the first article. You deserve to live a healthy, happy and fulfilling life. You are beautiful, you matter and your wishes and desires are important because they belong to YOU! Now is the time to take action and recalibrate your life. No more doing the same thing expecting a different result, enough is enough! It's time for a NEW YOU! A lesson I learned very early in life was that thoughts materialize. The premise is, whatever youfocus on is what you will bring into your life. If you believe, you can achieve, and you will receive! If your desire is to be loved, then say to yourself "I am loved". If you struggle with weight, call out the weight that you desire to be, “I am healthy and at my perfect weight of ____lbs”. If finances have been a challenge, call your budget into submission – “My finances are more than enough to cover my needs and my wants/ desires”. These thoughts and affirmat