Lastly, deal with emotion scars from previous relationships and/ or hurts from childhood that will interfere with having a healthy, mature relationship with someone. Sadly enough, many Christians, especially those who are considered
"Sadly enough,... those who are considered mature and older in age do not feel the need to receive pre-marital counseling or guidance."
BEFORE YOU SAY "I DO"
mature and older in age do not feel the need to receive pre-marital counseling or guidance.
I am not saying that these tools will be the answer to our divorce problem, but it can be the solution for not getting involved in something that you are not ready for. This is my philosophy; marriage is like having a dog. If you are not ready for it, leave it alone.
But from the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they two shall be one flesh: so, then they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder (St. Mark 10: 6 - 9, KJV).