Discovering YOU Magazine May 2026 Issue | Page 33

BEFORE YOU SAY "I DO"

Lower the Divorce Rate - Get Pre-marital Counseling

Article by Dr. Tunishai Ford

Studies show that the highest divorce rate is among the Jews and non-denominational Christians. This is ironic since they are supposed to be the most knowledgeable concerning marriage. Studies have also shown that the divorce rate is higher among Christians than it is among atheists. Why are so many Christian marriages failing and what can be done about it? I believe that some of the problems are that people are getting married who have no business getting married, because of unresolved issues in their lives, selfishness, and immaturity.

If these couples had received counseling, then many would be able to identify their problems and may consider not getting married at all until they deal directly with their issues. Also, another solution may be to attend pre-marital workshops and/ or seminars. These tools will give potential couples an opportunity to learn about proper protocol for dating and preparing for a lifetime commitment.

"If these couples had received counseling, then many would be able to identify their problems and may consider .... married at all until they deal .... with their issues."