Discovering YOU Magazine May 2019 Issue | Page 42

WHAT GOD PUTS TOGETHER

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"You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered," (I Peter 3: 7, NASB).

Time spent together in a marriage adds fuel to the marriage and increases the feeling of liking each other even more. It's like any relationship-you must work at it and more importantly, you must desire to work at it. It also helps when the one who is feeling lonely and neglected has an outlet too. Many of the spouses who complain and then enter into affairs are those who do not engage in any outside activities to curtail the boredom. As I used the Obamas as an example, Michelle has her interest and she is extremely active with the affairs that she has her hand in, therefore, when they do come together as a couple, the time spent together is most welcomed.

Put forth an effort to spend quality time with your partner, but also make sure that you too have a life. When you are sitting at home idle and you have no outside interest, you are an easy prey for deception and an affair to spring up. Take out time to get a hobby, involved in social groups to make new friends, go back to school to further your education whether it is for a degree or a skill. If you put some of these things in place you will find yourself managing your time more efficiently and when you do come together with your spouse, you will come together as two complete, whole, and fulfilled individuals.

"Many of the spouses who complain and then enter into affairs are those who do not engage in any outside activities to curtail

the boredom."