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E D U C AT I O N “Chips are crisps, jam is jelly, and no one knows what a queue is!” HOW THE SSE HELPED ONE SCHOLAR FEEL AT HOME IN ANOTHER COUNTRY WORDS EMILY STOKES Emily Stokes is a UK SSE Scholar, spending 3 terms at Hutchison School, in Memphis, Tennessee. Here, Emily describes her first few weeks of settling in. Moving to America, going to high school and living with an American family are completely surreal. Things that before now I had only seen in movies keep popping up everywhere; there are the subtle things like red solo cups and Twinkies, but then there are also big things, like Friday night football games, tailgates, homecoming and weekends at the lake house. Sometimes it amazes me how different America and the UK can be. I never understood the amount of space America has at its disposal before coming here; everything is so much bigger and spread out. In the time it would take to drive from London to Scotland – over half the country – you would be lucky to 38 | dialogue be a third of the way across Tennessee. Then there are the moments when I feel like I speak a different language; biscuits are like English muffins, chips are crisps, jam is jelly and no one knows what a queue is. Every time I meet someone new they have a few questions. Where in England am I from? To which I have to reply outside of London – even though I live closer to Dover – because otherwise, whatever variation on Ashford I try, we will descend into a ten minute mess of me trying to explain where that is in England. Do I actually drink tea? Yes. Yes, in fact I bought a 240 box of PG Tips with me and I am mildly horrified every time someone tries to give me honey and lemon with my hot water. Do I know any of the boys from One Direction or Prince Harry? No, unfortunately we haven’t crossed paths yet.