Daughters of Promise May/June 2015 | Page 10

I have watched as a woman manipulated and seduced until it was clearly not working, and then saw her turn into an angry, sarcastic, scornful, and arrogant shell who spit out shame and shredded any remaining ego in her husband. To add insult to injury, she later told me, “It was for his own good.” it. What will a statement like that look like in ten or twenty years? And what effects will an attitude like that have on a marriage? Satan is so subtle, and I really believe he has read the Bible because of the tactics he uses. For example, in our culture it is almost taboo to talk about headship order or women’s submission to men. The first quote I always hear is, “In Christ there is neither male nor female.” Praise God! I exult in that reality every single day when I enter into His presence! But ladies, somewhere, sometime, somehow we also have to reckon with the fact that the same God who in the Spirit made us neither male nor female, did create us by His own design to function best and be most fulfilled when aligned with His order of authority. Now before you begin throwing stones at me, take a deep breath and consider: if God Himself says something, why am I reacting against it? What is churning inside me, and where is it coming from? I assure you that is not a merely human response. B. ASSIGNED TO MANIPULATE AND GAIN CONTROL BY WHATEVER MEANS POSSIBLE Through the years I have often thought that surely I have seen all the “whatever means possible,” only to have even more come along. This spirit loves to be seen but hates to be identified! It will preen and flatter you, but if you dare to call it what it is, it will quickly duck for cover. The matriarchal/Jezebel spirit uses seduction, womanly wiles, or sexual means to control men. If those don’t work, it uses shame and sarcasm, scorn and arrogance. This spirit specifically targets the weak and the wounded, the hurt, rebellious and rejected. It uses flattery, smooth words, “prophecies” and tears to seduce these targets out from under authority. D. ASSIGNED TO DESTROY AND BLOCK THE SOFT, NURTURING LOVE OF A MOTHER IN ORDER TO: 1. Wound the children 2. Destroy the marriage C. ASSIGNED TO DESTROY THE ORDER GOD SET UP: GOD – CHRIST – MAN – WOMAN This is a huge problem in our world today. I was once speaking about the matriarchal spirit at a ladies’ retreat when a woman in the audience interrupted me and began refuting what I had been saying. I was a little taken aback, but since we live in a free country, she had the right to speak, so I simply prayed for direction. I felt very clearly I was not to challenge her, so when she finished I thanked her and continued on. In a very short time she interrupted again, and this time I saw a very clear picture in my spirit of this lady with a bucket of whitewash trying desperately to paint white what I had just exposed as black. She ended by asking me how