Daughters of Promise March/April 2014 | Page 12

It’s with trust that we dare to look ahead… sovereign. His ways are not calculated equations. If they were, we would try to copy the equations, wouldn’t we? We’d get confident about the methods, the A+B=C, feeling sure if B is always added to A, it must always equal C. If purposeful waiting was only for women waiting for marriage, then you really should move along right now. But the process of waiting and asking our Abba Father for something, not yet receiving, and asking again is still a huge part of my life. I feel somehow that I could write a cute little essay here about waiting purposefully, but when you find out that I am now happily married to a crazy-awesome man named Ben, you might bail and turn the page on to the next article. I ask God, why would I even have a voice among women who are still waiting? Parts of my life have fallen neatly into pleasant places. Over the thirty-two years of my life, I’ve seen an abundant amount of goodness and beauty. Through it all, there are threads that I would not have woven in, because who wants pain to be part of their story? 12