Creative Child February 2019 | Page 24

editor’s choice Gifts Every child loves receiving gifts. But for some, receiving gifts can be the way to his heart. These kids treasure gifts as a tangible token of affection. Unfortunately, because the purveying of tangible goods can be interpreted as spoiling your child, a child whose love language is receiving gifts can be shortchanged. But the important thing to remember is that your gifts don’t need to be expensive, and they don’t need to be given with radical frequency. But recognizing that a child prefers to be rewarded with yummy pastry than a hug is an important step in building communication. 23