2 . If you can ’ t stick to the routine , give the kids a heads up , and maybe even a practice run ! For many , the holidays involve lots of traveling or company over , and that can wreak havoc on your kids ’ routine . Cue cranky kids ! Bringing along familiar books , blankets , and toys when you travel is helpful , but also doing some part of your normal home routine while away will make your kiddo feel more secure . So if you usually read a story to them before bed , don ’ t skip it at Grandma ’ s .