Creative Child April 2020 | Page 28

editor’s choice So how do we teach our kids to have purpose outside of ourselves and focus more on the well-being of others and the community around us? Here are some easy and practical ways to start. Model giving behavior. It’s no secret that kids model parents’ behavior, particularly ones we wish they wouldn’t emulate. The good news, however, is that kids also mimic our good behavior. They may even remember it more because it’s what inspires them. Kayla Abramowitz was just a normal girl who spent an inordinate amount of time waiting in hospitals because of her medical ailment. But instead of becoming a victim, she enlisted her Girl Scout troop and started collecting DVDs and other educational entertainment material to donate to hospitals. When I interviewed her mom about how she raised such a caring child, she didn’t mention any particular instruction besides exposing her kids to giving back from a young age. Out of pure necessity, her young children followed their mom around as she collected leftover bagels from bakeries and delivered them to shelters. 27