Meanwhile, there is a growing trend of substance abuse
addiction, depression and sedentary lifestyles. Is it a stretch
to think the two are connected? Not according to research.
Through fMRI technology, we now know that giving
activates the same parts of the brain that are stimulated by
other pleasurable activities. Self-centered pursuits can also
lead to happiness, as we’ve all experienced, but investing
in our own happiness induces fluctuating happiness, while
authentic-durable happiness results from selflessness,
research shows.
Not only does selflessness lead to more happiness, but many
industry experts now believe that selflessness actually leads
to more success as well.
Esther Wojcicki is a rather famous parent. She is an educator
who is renown mostly for raising three successful kids. Her
daughter Susan is the CEO of YouTube, Janet is a professor of
pediatrics, and Anne is the co-founder and CEO of 23andMe.
“They rose to the top of ultra-competitive, male-dominated
professions,” said Wojcicki.
When providing much-heeded parenting advice about how
to raise successful and happy kids, she had this to say.
“We’re chasing money and possessions. Not service, not
purpose,” says the mom of three daughters.
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If we have a purpose at all, it’s to make ourselves
happy. But if there’s one thing I know, it’s this:
You’re happiest — as well as most beneficial to
society — when you’re doing things to help others.