County Commission | The Magazine November 2019 | Page 4

President’s PERSPECTIVE I Hon. David Money President We are all called to service Always give the best of yourself, and thank people who help you along the way Editor’s Note: This is an excerpt of the prepared text of David Money’s inaugural address. 4 | NOVEMBER 2019 remember my momma telling the Trailways bus driver, “Now you keep an eye on my boy, and make sure you don’t let him off this bus until his grandma is there to meet him in Cordele, Georgia.” I was 5 years old and about to make a three-hour bus trip by myself. Such was the rural South in 1953 — not many of us would put our 5 year-old on a bus alone in today’s world. What I remember most about those visits was the sound of train whistles all through the night. My 5 year-old mind wondering: “Who’s on that train? Where are they going? Where’ve they been? What have they seen?” That began my fascination with trains. I was born poor, but everyone on that Henry County dirt road was poor. We didn’t miss what we’d never had. Didn’t miss indoor plumbing — we were fine with the outhouse and the proverbial Sears and Roebuck catalog. I had no problem with inside sponge baths in cold weather in a wash tub in front of a wood-burning stove. But I did have a problem with my mother bathing me in the late afternoon summer sun by stringing a water hose over the limb of the Chinaberry tree in the side yard … in view of the entire world. Daddy always said a pair of pliers was cheaper than any dentist, and Christmas to us meant some fruit and peppermints, maybe a flannel shirt — and, in a really good year, a hand-me-down bicycle. When I was in the second grade, Daddy lost his job and moved us to Port St. Joe. He and Mother both worked in a box plant — living from week to week, from paycheck to paycheck. What they got on Friday was generally gone by Wednesday. Most weekends meant bonfires on St. Joe Beach, two or three couples with their children. My job as an 8 year-old — and the oldest child there — was to hang near the adults and take ‘em a beer from the ice chest when they wanted one. This was well before pop tops, so I’d open it with a can opener (also known as a church key) and take it back to ‘em. I would drink the foam from the top of the beer can on that very slow walk back to where they sat on the shore of St. Joe Beach. This went on weekend after weekend, party after party. Their marriage soon became very shaky. As school broke for Christmas during the fourth grade, I got home to find that Daddy had packed our clothes and loaded them in the car. He was taking me and my 7-year-old sister back to Alabama; our 4-year-old sister was staying with Mother. They were getting something they called a divorce. As he drove back to Abbeville, I saw my daddy cry for the first time in my life. This was his second marriage to fail. Daddy married five times; my mother was married twice. From those seven marriages came many children scattered over Alabama, Florida and Georgia. I’ve often said that I have more steps than the Lincoln Memorial. After moving back to Henry County, Daddy worked at a truck stop. It was where Great Southern Wood is located today. The three of us lived in a run-down mobile home behind that truck stop. With no curfew and very few rules, I’d walk around in the late-night shadows, looking for a half-empty beer can or a not-fully-smoked cigarette. And there were always domino games lasting well into the night. Daddy would often leave and tell me to take over his hand, leaving a 10 year-old boy to play dominoes against grown men for $5 a game. They were often