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D EF I NI NG D I V E RS I T Y A N D I N C LU S I O N ogy, and so many other factors. In the stu- dent perspective, inclusion is about making sure students don’t feel excluded for any part of their identity. I think that adults see inclusion as more so a celebration of each person’s differences, and embracing diver- sity rather than blending in. perspectives were not shared. Our students are asking us to do something that we have not yet tried—a conversation, a dialogue. In what ways have we been protecting our students from potential conflict and mis- understanding by keeping these voices on separate stages? How might we bring stu- dents into helping us live our ideals of “di- versity” and “inclusion”? We plan to continue this conversation at our schools, exploring more with students and adults. Next steps include bringing students with different perspectives together, and bringing stu- dents and adults together. Seeking a shared understanding of these and other key terms in our discussions about who we are and who we want to be as a community will only strengthen the work we can do together. l In their responses, students focused on what it feels like to be a part of a commu- nity and whether everyone is encouraged to be their true authentic selves in that com- munity or not. They also seem to be hun- gry for honest, complex conversations that include many voices at once. In the lifetime of many of our faculty and staff, we have seen a move from once, dominant voices, to the voices of those whose stories and Rev. Katie O. Kilpatrick, Woodward Academy Chaplain, The Pauline and R.L. Brand Jr. ‘35 Chair of Religious Studies Rev. Katie Kilpatrick (known to her students as Chaplain K) is passionate about promoting peace, understanding, and compassion. She has spent most of the last seven years working with individuals experiencing disabilities, abuse, homelessness, and illness in various non- profit and clinical settings. Katie graduated from Candler School of Theology with her Master of Divinity in May 2015 with a Certificate of Religion and Health. She believes that through education, students can be inspired to change the world as they grow to understand and appreciate those around them. Felicia Wilks, Lakeside School Assistant Head of School and Upper School Director Felicia Wilks is the Assistant Head of School and Upper School Director at Lakeside School in Seattle, Washington. Before joining Lakeside in 2017, Ms. Wilks served as the head of an independent school in Maryland, the Garrison Forest School. From 2010 to 2015, she was the Director of Diversity and a member of the leadership team at Friends School of Baltimore. Contact her at [email protected]. CSEE Connections Summer 2020 Page 27