Connections Quarterly Summer 2019 - Gender | Page 5

C H AR T I NG A PAT H TO GE N D E R I N C LU S I V E S C HO O L S “ But what does it look like for schools to in- tentionally work towards greater gender inclusivity? More specifically, how are inde- pendent schools especially well-positioned to do so? The Gender norms— whether about our bodies, the types of jobs a person should do, our interests, or how we should dress (among other things)—impact all of us. Young people in particular are often hindered by their ever- present nature. If you’re confused about gender these days, you’re not alone. “In times of drastic change, it is the learners who inherit the future. The learned find them- selves beautifully equipped to live in a world that no longer exists.” (Eric Hoffer) Few would argue that notions and con- versations about gender are rapidly evolv- ing in new and vibrant ways. At the same time, gender remains one of our least un- derstood identities, steeped in binary as- sumptions and expectations. Remaining “learned” about gender means holding onto traditional understandings that inextricably link our gender to the sex we are assigned at birth. These binary notions are constantly reinforced in multiple ways in virtually every aspect of society. ” their knowledge of gender, despite their discomfort. Schools must establish a com- mon language and framework for under- standing gender, including taking the time to explore how gender has impacted each person’s own life and their work as educa- tors. Rather than desperately clinging tight- ly to outdated ideas about gender, educa- tors must become learners, or otherwise risk being “beautifully equipped to live in a world that no longer exists.” At the same time, we are living in a time of drastic change when it comes to gender. Complicating this shifting context is an ever-changing gender vocabulary. It is not surprising therefore that few educators feel confident about addressing the topic. In fact, the ever-changing language of gender is a significant barrier to becoming more comfortable with the subject as a whole. Charting a Path: Entry Points to Gender Inclusive Schools We all know the saying that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. This is certainly the case here as well. Gender inclusive schools do not happen by acci- dent. Through employing a systematic set As with any aspect of our students’ lives that are affecting their experiences at school, it is incumbent upon all educators to deepen Continues on page 4 CSEE Connections Summer 2019 Page 3