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How to start a conversation
I came upon this site and decided to ask a question and see what you have up your sleeve.
I have so much difficulty in starting a conversation with women. This
also causes me to have a bad first impression as well. I am always
thinking what to say next and the effect is she is probably thinking I
am stupid or something (which I am not of course).
I can get the looks and the flirts, but when I do get the courage and talk
I found she has a boyfriend. I generally continue to talk to her, but in
the back of my mind I am saying, "Damn". What I am basically saying
is what do you talk about when you want to get to know her?
charlie
ANSWER: Hey, Charlie. Thanks for your question. It's an important
one. The key to having a good conversation and building attraction
through it is in making your conversation interesting and using humor
and wit.
In other words, IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU ARE
TALKING ABOUT, but how you talk.
Sharing your interesting opinions, being sarcastic, and teasing a
woman will create many good feelings between the two of you if she
is cool enough to handle it. And the topics don't matter. You can just
randomly start telling her: "Hey, did you see this movie? That actor is
so good, he really got into the role which made me feel sorry for him"
or something like that.
It's very important to understand and remember that your conversation DOESN'T need to be extrodinary. Normal,
non-cliche conversation will be good enough if your posture, your voice and your body radiate relaxed energy and
confidence.
Thanks, and I hope this helps. If not, please follow up.