Coaching World Issue 8: November 2013 | Page 9

Vinogradov Illya/Shutterstock.com The benefits of mindfulness are many: • When you slow down and stop doing so many things, you have the opportunity to notice the endless thoughts that pop into your head. • When you are mindful during everyday activities, you notice the thought patterns that dominate your thinking. • You notice your feelings in various situations and • By observing yourself from a more objective perspective, you can gain insights into why you feel the way you do, eventually noticing triggers, beliefs, values and other filters that you use. Meditating When you first start meditating, you often catch yourself getting drawn to other thoughts or images before consciously pulling your attention back to your breath, mantra or meditative movement, only to have your mind wander yet again. It can seem as though you are never going to catch on to meditating. But if you persist you will find that, at some point, you are able to notice the thoughts and images more objectively, sh kin a/S hu t te r stoc k.com recognize the difference between being in calming, peaceful situations and being in situations that make you feel stressed, angry or sad. ha The benefits of meditation and mindfulness can be difficult to appreciate until you experience them firsthand. In addition to helping you become calmer and more focused, meditation can help you get more in touch with your real self. In fact, this is one of its primary goals. Meditation helps you to go inside yourself and experience emotions and feelings that you may have neglected, ignored or been unable to confront in the past. El e na S with the awareness that these are only diversions—they are not who you are. This allows you to acknowledge the thoughts without getting drawn into them. Becoming more aware of the sea of thoughts constantly moving through your head may initially make you feel as t