Church Executive Jan / Feb 2020 | Page 18

SEXUAL ABUSE EFFECTIVE SCREENING: KEEPING THE WOLF OUT OF THE SHEEP PEN By Gregory Love & Kimberlee Norris Pastor Arrested for Molesting Teens in Youth Group screamed a recent media headline in a heavily populated metropolitan area. Unfortunately, it’s not an anomaly; headlines detailing child sexual abuse in ministry contexts occur almost daily. T he reality is daunting: one in four girls and one in six boys will be sexually abused before reaching the age of 18. Two out of three children don’t disclose abuse until adulthood, if ever. These statistics don’t skip any socioeconomic status, geographic location, ethnicity or spiritual paradigm. In one large study, the average convicted male abuser who preferred female victims had an average of 52 victims prior to prosecution. In the same study, the male abuser who preferred male victims had an average of 150 victims. Where children are gathered for ministry purposes, the risk of child sexual abuse exists. To effectively protect children and youth from sexual abuse, the Church must learn to recognize the offender’s ‘grooming process’ and undertake effective screening practices to weed out offenders, thereby keeping the wolf out of the sheep pen. Effective screening requires more than a criminal background check While background checks have become a standard of care for child-serving programs, they cannot be relied upon as a standalone screening tool. Why? Because less than 10% of sexual abusers will encounter the criminal justice system, ever. More than 90% of abusers have no record to find, and they know it. A criminal background check must be included in the screening process but cannot be relied upon to identify the majority of abusers. Effective screening is rooted in an understanding of the offender’s grooming process. Sexual offenders come from all segments of society. Sadly, some gain access to children through church programming. Abusers groom both children and gatekeepers — trusted adults in a child’s life — to convince them that they are helpful, 18 CHURCH EXECUTIVE | JAN / FEB 2020 CRIMINAL BACKGROUND CHECKS: 5 FACTS EVERY EXECUTIVE PASTOR SHOULD KNOW #1: Criminal background checks are no silver bullet. Less than 10% of sexual predators will encounter the criminal justice system. Criminal background checks cannot be relied upon as a stand-alone screening system. #2: Churches should be looking for plea-down or ‘red flag’ offenses. Red flag offenses, such as providing alcohol to a minor, might reveal grooming behaviors. Plea-down offenses occur when an offense related to child sexual abuse is pled down to a lesser or non-registration offense, such as assault or indecency. #3: There is no one-size-fits-all criminal background check. Background checks should be keyed to ministry positions, so that the depth of check matches the extent and type of direct involvement with children. #4: Ministries should clearly identify disqualifying offenses that automatically preclude an applicant from serving with children. Check your state law for any mandated list of disqualifying offenses. #5: The national criminal database sold as the ‘basic’ package by background check vendors has significant limitations and largely incomplete data. Consider adding a county search pulled directly from county record-keepers. The majority of child sexual abuse and violent crime cases are prosecuted at the county level. Learn more about effective criminal background checks in our next “Stop Sexual Abuse” Series installment, and at MinistrySafe.com. trustworthy, responsible people. Validated by decades of academic studies, the grooming process of the abuser is known and recognizable. Ministries should evaluate each element of the screening process with a thorough understanding of the abuser’s grooming process, common grooming behaviors, and known offender characteristics. As an example, offenders often engage in kid-magnet activities and hobbies which are attractive to children within the offender’s age and gender of preference. If an applicant demonstrates an unusually exclusive interest in children’s activities when asked about interests or hobbies, dig a little deeper into the applicant’s past interaction with children, whether as an employee or volunteer. Effective screening creates OPT-OUT opportunities Skillful screening incorporates opt-out opportunities in the course of the screening process, before the applicant has access to children. When a ministry communicates current child protection practices and protocols, from the beginning, it communicates to the abuser: It might be easier somewhere else. Applications should clearly state that all suspicions and allegations of child abuse are immediately reported to civil authorities. The Two-Adult Rule should be clearly communicated and followed. Applicants should review and sign child protection policies