I have to manage to learn how to control my emotions when it comes to romantic feeling's. I compartmentalize, remove myself from the situation and look at the feelings in a reasonable way. I have noticed whenever I have a crush it makes my self-confidence plummet. I am not naturally confident so I don’t want to lose any more. Because of that, and since I am 15 and don't want to date I reject all of my feeling and can end any romantic notion I have towards one person.
I didn't think much of it till I told my friend about it. I wondered what if I am pushing feelings away but God wants me to have these feeling’s. Or what if I push my feelings for someone away when I could really love them, and just end up hurting myself, but I don't even know because I didn't let fate work.
Is what I'm doing wrong or should I trust that when God had it in his will for me to have feelings for someone, I can't just push them away like I normally do?
Thanks,
Juanita
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