CANADIAN PHYSIQUE ALLIANCE March Issue | Page 31

That is because they emitted negative vibrations from their space into yours. When you walked away you took those negative vibrations with you. It then takes time to transfer that energy back into a positive state. This will only result in your mind not allowing you to commit to something fully it believes you do not deserve any way. I challenge my clients to SMASH THE NEGATIVE and SWITCH TO POSITIVE. How do you do this? Every-time you say something negative to yourself, stop yourself. Acknowledge the negative thought and dismiss it. Now that you have released the negative hold that thought had over you, switch it to a positive tone. The same goes for self-talk. When you say negative things about yourself you only feel worse not better Immediately those words may create some form of action, but over time as you continue to talk to yourself in a negative tone, you will train your brain to think in a negative tone. You see your brain is a muscle, and you train it the same way you do your glutes or biceps, via repetition. Just imagine if your brain hears over and over again that you are not good enough, you are not worthy, you are not in shape, you are not ……you are not… you are not. Example: I will never get in shape because I have too much going on in my life. vs I am going to work hard to get the shape I deserve and push through any limitations that come my way. "You can’t hate yourself into loving yourself"