Bossy! Magazine Fall Issue 2021 | Page 64

What we need to do is treat these DM conversations like in-person interactions. If you wouldn’t call my phone at 6 AM to ask me a question and not say “Hello” first, do not dare hit my DM with that same foolishness! This is not your first-time skipping rocks, so you think you have

beginner's luck and hope one keeps skipping. You are making a first impression on a woman you potentially want to have more interaction with. More interaction! More is the keyword.

Please stop Hello Beautiful,” Hey beautiful. Hi Sexy. Wow you’re gorgeousing” me to no avail in my inbox. I’m exhausted from constantly checking messages to find you sent the same message five days ago and five weeks ago and… wait for it… five months ago!

I need you to understand that complimenting me upon my first communication with you is like a social media “catcall.” Like who raised you? Wolves? Dinosaurs? Hyenas probably.